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Dorothy Neddermeyer


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Reclaiming Your Self-Confidence - Only You Give Yourself

Your belief about yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. The more self-confident you are about yourself, the more likely you will succeed. The only validation that matters is self-approval what you think of yourself. Self-confidence improves by changing both your thoughts and behaviors. What matters most is how you see yourself. You need to practice new beliefs, thoughts, and behaviors until you begin to turn the tide of your feelings about yourself. And you need to continue practicing them to maintain a healthy love for yourself. Low self-confidence is a sign of something deeper that needs to be resolved. You deserve to have more self-confidence and self-esteem.

Lack of self-confidence is being more inclined to slip into fearfulness. Being afraid of failure is a sign of timidity.  Self-confidence improves by changing your beliefs, thoughts, and conduct. You need to practice new thoughts actions and improved deeds until you begin to turn the tide of your feelings about yourself. And you need to continue practicing them to maintain a healthy love for yourself. If you have low self-confidence, an important thing to do is to discover the cause. It could be related to Loneliness, being unemployed, the death of a loved one, bullying, poor academic performance, neglect or abuse, something going on at a deeper level.

Sometimes it can be difficult to identify the causes of your low self-confidence. Perhaps you’ve never thought about it, or maybe it’s difficult to determine when it first started. Whether or not you know exactly what’s causing it, there are steps you can take to build your confidence and improve the way you feel about yourself. Lack of self-confidence is being more inclined into fearfulness. Being afraid of failure is a sign of timidity. Self-confidence affirmations will help you overcome timidity. Low self-confidence is a sign of something deeper that needs to be resolved. Are you successful on the outside, but harboring a scary feeling that one day someone will find out you’re not as good as you seem to be? Sometimes called imposter syndrome.

To reclaim your Self-confidence, you need to change the story you are telling yourself about who you are, what you are about, and get prepared to evolve as a completely new self.


About Dr. Dorothy:  

Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, Ph.D., International Best Selling Author is a recognized authority on bridging Science and Human Potential as a successful influencer in the public and private sectors. As a consultant, coach, and keynote speaker, she brings 30 plus years of global experience to leadership development, behavioral change, and human potential.

Press Release comments:

A topical and currently appropriate article Dorothy given the amount of fear around at the moment, much of which emanates from lack of confidence in confronting situations and sensibly evaluating risk. There's always a need for rational thought, you ring that to the table always.Tom Riach